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How
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Can
I adopt through your agency even if I don't live in Texas? |
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How
long do I have to stay in Texas after placement? Do we have to finalize
the adoption in San Antonio?
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Are
there any loans or special financial programs available for prospective
adoptive families?
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What
does "semi-open adoption" mean? |
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Do
we have to maintain contact with the Birth mother? |
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Can
we state the preference for the sex of our child |
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Can
the birthmother change her mind about the adoption plan? |
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What
are some of the senarios that may cause the Birth Mothers to change their
mind?
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What
testing is done during the birthmother's pregnancy?
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What
about the Birth Father rights to a child?
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What
kinds of children are available for adoption 16through Adoption Services
Worldwide?
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Can
a Single Person Adopt?
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How
do I adopt? What is the process? How do I start?
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How
long will the process take? How soon can we have a baby?
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What
services are covered by the Agency fee? Are legal fees included?
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How
much are the Birth mother expenses?
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What
does it mean when we sign the Corporal Punishment form?
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How
can I contact your agency? |
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Feel free to
write us at: Adoption Services Worldwide
7300 Blanco Road, Suite 206
San Antonio, Texas 78216
Or call:
210-342-0444
or contact us via e-mail at:
[email protected]
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Can
I adopt through your agency even if I don't live in Texas? |
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Yes
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How
long do I have to stay in Texas after placement? |
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Pending any
unforseen delays; we like to tell our adoptive parents to plan on staying
in Texas for 7-10 days post-placment. This time allows for paperwork to be
submitted and approved at the Interstate Compact offices in Texas and your
home state
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Do
we have to finalize the adoption in San Antonio, and do we both have to
return for finalization? |
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Yes, you are
required to finalize in Texas, and at least one adoptive parent needs to
return to San Antonio for finalization.
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Are
there any loans or special financial programs available for prospective
adoptive families? |
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Yes,
and we will provide that information upon request.
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What
does "semi-open adoption" mean? |
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It
means that our birth mothers know only first names of the adoptive family
and geographical region where the adoptive family lives.If agreed upon,
our birth mothers speak on the phone with the adoptive parents throughout
the pregnancy and meet during the pregnancy or at the time of birth.
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Do
we have to maintain contact with the Birth mother? |
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All
correspondence between the Birth mother and adoptive parents will be
forwarded by the Agency. The exchange of letters and photos occurs monthly
during the first 6 months after placement, thereafter updates are provided
on the child's birthday until age 5. If the adoptive family chooses they
can provide updates until the age of 18. The adoptive family may continue
contact with the Birth mother after the supervisory period is over if
agreed upon. Identifying information (such as last name, and/or street
address) is not shared unless agreed upon by both birth and adoptive
families. We strive to cultivate a genuine bond of trust and respect which
grows between participants, with the expressed purpose to meet the best
interest of all parties.
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Can
we state the preference for the sex of our child? |
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Yes,
although specifying sex preferences are likely to decrease your
opportunities and slow your adoption process dramatically. Birth mothers
generally choose their baby's adoptive family before knowing the child's
sex. Sonograms can be incorrect.
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Can
the birthmother change her mind about the adoption plan? What are some of
the senarios that may cause the Birth Mothers to change their mind? |
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In
Texas, birth parents have until the time of 48 hours after the baby is
born to change their mind. Once the Relinquishment is signed, the decision
is irrevocable. The psychology of the Birth mother is an intricate one.
Many adoptions fall through by no fault of the Agency or Adoptive Parents.
Sometimes the Birth Mother changes her mind or goes with another Agency or
just "disappears" without notifying the Agency. It is our intent
to maintain a strong relationship with the Birth mothers and provide them
with support, counseling and guidance. Our placement staff is available 24
hours a day to speak with them if needed. As you know, no one can pressure
a Birth Mother into the decision to relinquish. We provide you with the
best information we have and provide frequent updates. We will be there
for you every step of the way, and hopefully everything will fall into
place. Yet there is always a risk involved. Some adoptive parents seek
adoption insurance as a means to re-coup their potential losses. You may
choose to look into this.
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What
testing is done during the birthmother's pregnancy? |
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Adoption
Services Worldwide routinely requests testing for HIV, venereal disease,
and/or drug screening. In some cases, however, the birthmother may come to
the Agency after birth or too late in the pregnancy for testing to be
done. We advise you, the prospective adoptive parents, of all scenarios.
We provide you, the prospective adoptive parents, with all information
available to us to assist you to make an informed decision.
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What
about the Birth Father rights to a child? |
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The
Texas Family Code states that an affidavit of relinquishment may be signed
no sooner than 48 hours after birth of the child by the Birth Mother and a
man meeting the legal definition of a "presumed father." The
Birth father may sign his waiver before 48 hours if they are not married,
if they are married he can sign when the birth mother signs at the 48
hours. Diligent efforts are made to locate any man named as a
"potential father" of a child. Unknown fathers are cited through
publication in the newspaper and must respond within 21 days. In Texas
once a Birth father signs his relinquishment, it too is irrevocable.
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What
kinds of children are available for adoption through Adoption Services
Worldwide? |
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At
Adoption Services Worldwide, we primarily place newborns of all ethnic
groups
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Can
a Single Person Adopt? |
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Yes,
a single person can adopt pending the same Home Study protocol and
evaluation as adoptive couples.
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How
do I adopt? What is the process? How do I start? |
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1.
After receiving the Inquiry Packet - Complete the Preliminary Inquiry and
return to the Agency with $25.00 (non-refundable) inquiry fee. We use this
Inquiry information as a screening tool to assess the potentiality for you
to become adoptive parents. We then send you the Application Packet.
2. After receiving the Application Packet - Complete and return the
Application Form with $350.00 (non-refundable) application fee.
3. Based upon the Application information provided, you are conditionally
accepted into the program as Prospective Adoptive Parents.
4. Conditions of Full Agency Acceptance is contingent upon approval of the
Home Study Report and the Application. We must have all required items
before making a placement. The Agency fee must be remitted per the terms
of the financial agreement and is due in full no later than the time of
placement.
5. Once a homestudy is approved you are considered "Parents in
Waiting". At this point your portfolio will be shown to Birth
mothers.
6. The birthparents review portfolios, and choose the family they would
like to adopt their child.
7. If the adoptive family agrees, a match is made and the "Parents in
Waiting" makes a commitment to the case.
8. Once the child is placed, there is a 6 month supervision period prior
to the adoption finalization.
9. Adoption finalization occurs 6 months after placement based on the
adoptive families desire to formalize or Adoption Services of America's
placement staff's recommendation to proceed based on the 6 months'
supervision assessment.
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How
long will the process take? How soon can we have a baby? |
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We do
not have long "Parent-in-Waiting" lists, therefore the process
usually takes anywhere from 6 months to 1 year. The process may take
longer depending upon how soon the adoptive families complete their
application, send in their required documentation including the Dear Birth
mother letter, portfolio and home study.
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What
services are covered by the Agency fee? Are legal fees included? |
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Our
Agency Service Fee covers services to biological parents, services to
adoptive parents, and administrative processing.
Services to biological parents include:
a. intake documentation and in-office counseling interviews
b. subsequent in-office counseling interview (individual and group)
c. coordination and monitoring with medical care providers
d. assistance in obtaining housing, including telephone & utility
services
e. coordination of travel arrangements and local transportation
f. coordination of recreational activities (in San Antonio, Texas area)
g. telephone and normal correspondence expenses, and other necessary
services.
Placement services include:
a. Placement coordination activities
b. Placement supervision.
Administrative processing and services to adoptive parents include: a.
adoptive applicant's orientation seminar presentation (when applicable)
b. application and home study documentation, review and evaluation
c. coordination activities with other agencies regarding application, home
study and post placement supervision; telephone and normal correspondence
expenses
d. financial processing and disbursing of medical and maintenance support
expenses
e. accounting record maintenance
f. agency staff (local) transportation
g. expenses for counseling and placement
h. foster care coordination (not actual care)
i. Interstate compact document preparation, assembly & coordination
j. notary services provided by agency staff.
Legal fees are not included in the above agency fees. The fee for legal
services covers services to include:
a. preparation and processing of birth father's termination documents
b. preparation and processing of appropriate documents for legal citation
of the birth father
c. preparation and processing of birth mother's relinquishment and
termination documents
d. preparation and processing of agency/adoptive parent Adoption Petition
and Final Adoption decree
e. the required court appearance for finalization
f. preparation and processing of the birth certificate application.
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How
much are the Birth mother expenses? |
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Birth
mother expenses can vary depending on when the Birth mother presents
herself to the agency and what her needs are. In Texas agencies can assist
the birth mother with her living expenses to include; medical, housing,
utilities, transportation and food through 6 weeks postpartum. Adoption
Services Worldwide provides the "Parents-in-Waiting" a detailed
Estimated Expense Invoice so they are aware of the birth mother's needs
and estimated expenses. the Agency will also provide monthly updated
reports if any changes occur.
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What
does it mean when we sign the Corporal Punishment form? |
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Texas
standards state that no form of physical punishment is allowed when
interacting with the child. This includes spanking, hitting, slapping,
shaking, sit-ups, push-ups, holding or sitting in an unnatural position,
unproductive work or the use of mechanical and personal restraints. No
verbal abuse will be allowed (i.e.) yelling at children, calling them
humiliating or embarrassing names, making negative remarks about their
birth family, making threats of loss of placement.
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